Plumbata
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You're yet young, and I do understand where you are coming from, but trust me when I say that you will be much better off if you established some rigid personal ground-rules. It will save you money, and make you a wiser and better-informed collector. I don't know if you are a hoarder, but you seem to possess the attributes of a person predisposed to hoarding. I admit that i'm a hoarder myself, and it is a bad thing when the sheer volume (and mass) of your stuff negatively impacts yourself and others. I dunno how my girlfriend puts up with it; most would run away screaming instantaneously. My father always said "It is better to possess 1 excellent item than 10, or 100 mediocre items", and in terms of personal and familial sanity, long-term investment value, and decades-long personal enjoyment of the items, you should try to make yourself focus on a more coherent, concise, and likely more difficult (and thus more rewarding) goal. Then you will know precisely what you are working towards. I don't say this in judgement; I wish someone would have pounded the same words into my thick skull when I was younger. Then, perhaps, I wouldn't have the tendency to obtain or hold onto what I know objectively I don't really need or want. I tell myself that I will sell it at the next flea market, etc, but I could set up every day for a year and still have plenty of stuff left to get rid of. If hoarding is a sickness, then I'm terminal. Don't let it happen to you.
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