RedGinger
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I'm sorry for your loss, Privvydigger. I'm sure it helps to know that your friends here empathize with you. I lost my two cats at once last year. I still cry about it. I was in a bad car accident after just moving back to my home state from a divorce. I was staying at my Grandmother's. She told me I had to move right away. Her kids wanted her to sell her house so they could get the money. Sounds like a soap opera. I had no time, had to find somewhere to go, was still recovering, and no place would take cats. None of my friends or other family could keep them for me. I was not putting them in a strange shelter after they lived with me for so many years to either be adopted by God knows who or suffer in a cage waiting to be put to sleep. I made the hardest decision of my life with them. At least I know they are in heaven. It's a hard story to tell, but that's it in a nutshell. Animals are capable of unconditional love, something my Grandmother wasn't. I know that story is a bummer to say the least, but it helps to talk about it. I understand the loss and the agony. It will become easier over time, but you'll never forget. Take comfort in knowing Rhett is at peace and that you gave him everything. I agree with Rick that when you feel ready, down the road, getting another companion will do wonders. Take care. Keep digging, it's great therapy and it's free. Laur
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