woodswalker
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A few months ago I met my biological father...I had not seen him since I was 5 years old. Well I decided to start searching for that family I never knew...sending out messages to everyone with that last name on Facebook. Eventually I found my Aunt and grandfather who lead me in the direction of my father. Strangely enough he lives within a 50 mile distance from me.
My phone rings yesterday and my real father...(I'm not even sure what to call him) says I have someone I want you to say hi to....and across the line a girl says Hi I'm Miranda your sister...in tears. She had been searching for my younger sister and I for the last 11 years. I also find that I have a niece and a brother named Chad who lives in New Mexico and that there would have been another sister but she died at six weeks old.
I can't wait to meet her and this other "lost" part of my family...but I am afraid of the rifts it might cause between my mother and the father that raised me. My younger sister is getting married in July...I feel its her choice whether or not our real father comes but our mother is completely against it! I have enough stress in my life right now with the health issues I've been having...my doctor thinks I'm making myself sick with stress and on top of everything else they found a lump and I go back for more tests tomorrow...
I don't know whether to be happy or depressed right now....
I can't wait to meet my sister Miranda and her daughter and get to know that missing part of me!
Amanda
My phone rings yesterday and my real father...(I'm not even sure what to call him) says I have someone I want you to say hi to....and across the line a girl says Hi I'm Miranda your sister...in tears. She had been searching for my younger sister and I for the last 11 years. I also find that I have a niece and a brother named Chad who lives in New Mexico and that there would have been another sister but she died at six weeks old.
I can't wait to meet her and this other "lost" part of my family...but I am afraid of the rifts it might cause between my mother and the father that raised me. My younger sister is getting married in July...I feel its her choice whether or not our real father comes but our mother is completely against it! I have enough stress in my life right now with the health issues I've been having...my doctor thinks I'm making myself sick with stress and on top of everything else they found a lump and I go back for more tests tomorrow...
I don't know whether to be happy or depressed right now....
I can't wait to meet my sister Miranda and her daughter and get to know that missing part of me!
Amanda